Need a financial miracle

Dear Energy Lady,
My husband started a business a few years ago, and he's done everything in his power to make it work.  At this point, you could say he's obsessed with it.  So isn't that aligning your energy with what you want?  If so, it isn't working.  He has never made any money, and has now drained our savings.  We've also remortgaged our house and tapped out our credit cards, even though I objected to both.

I want to believe him that this is going to eventually pay off and we'll be millionaires, but I feel angry, resentful and frightened most of the time.   Got any good visualization tips or other ways I can make a financial miracle?

Signed,
Praying


Dear Praying,
Visualization is a wonderful thing.  It can help us see and shape a beautiful future.  But it's not enough to see something; you have to resonate with it.

You say your husband has done everything in his power to make his business work.  Simply, a business must be profitable in order to work, which means more money going in than going out.  It sounds as if he has not been able to make that happen to this point.  It doesn't mean it never will happen, but when a business is deeply, deeply in debt and its owners acting in fearful ways, it often takes outside help or someone with a fresh, objective perspective to see and do what must be done to turn it around.

That's the practical take on things.  From an energy standpoint, if you see yourself as millionaires, you're basically saying that you have a lot of money.  Right now, though, you say you don't have a lot of money, or any money for that matter, and it sounds like your confidence is waning or gone. So any visualization wouldn't be conscious creating; it would be making a wish that you likely don't believe can come true.

From an energy standpoint, wishes can come true if one of three things happen:  1) you feel peaceful, happy and free when you make them; 2) you allow your wish to be answered in a way other than a specific one that you insist must happen (for instance, winning the lottery); 3) you make a wish not that circumstances change, but that you change.

For you, I recommend the latter, because your actions--both yours and your husband's--are generating energy that is contradictory to what you want.  You spend money before you've even made it.  You're using debt, hoping it will help you grow your net worth.  You say you believe in your husband's business, but that you're frightened most of the time.  All of these suggest that your energy is not aligned or resonating with the wealth you say you want, and that visualization will not work right now.

So I would encourage you to go within before you try to change this situation any further from without.  Surrender questions like these to your guides/the source/God:  what needs to change to help me/us create financial stability?  What must I/we stop doing, start doing, continue doing to grow our net worth? If you're praying, pray for the courage to see the truth in your situation and for all the help and resources you need--earthly and otherwise--to create an outcome that is good for everyone, including you.

As you get the answers, take steps to respond to them.  Baby steps will do at first.  Taking that first step points your energy in the direction you want.  If you focus your thoughts, energy and actions on having a healthy financial future, you will begin to resonate with it, and from there, it will be easy and fun to visualize life as a millionaire.

Remember this: there is great love for you and your husband on this plane and in many other dimensions.  All is well.  Keep that in your heart as you go forward.

Love,
EL